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So not only are most of the jobs that men excelled at being destroyed and automated, but women now on the whole when apples to apples comparisons are made actually make more than men.
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Of course, he KNEW all that from the psychiatric report on his homicidal client, but whatever. At least I got a divorce. She should have gone to prison for multiple counts of attempted murder; she did meet the legal standard for being sane enough to stand trial a man guilty of the same exact conduct in the same mental state sure would have.
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Much of what women have acheived are what WE are supposed to wwoman out there acheiving! We are the ones who are supposed to be out there slaying the dragons for you ladies!
Do women really want Mr Mom? Not really. But being a strong leader type is not exactly politically correct or honored in todays culture Generous guy for a stong woman it? Either is being in charge, yet that is what we as men are wired for, that is why we would rather have a woman who agrees with our opinions rather than have a bunch of her own.
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You need to look at what you are saying. You want to be smart and driven and have a career, which is fine. You want a man who is smart and driven and has a career. This is fine too. The problem is you want both of these things. Putting two Generous guy for a stong woman successful Generous guy for a stong woman people together is like putting two alpha dogs in a cage.
They are not going to get along. If one of the people in a relationship is a rock, the other has to be softer, or the relationship wont work. Women always write off men who are gentle and nurturing. I find being aggressive draining. I like smart, driven aggressive women, but I have no intention of being that way myself.Old Women In Oilton
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Yeah personality matches are important. If both people want to be in charge it is just kind of draining. I honestly prefer it when whoever I am dating has their own projects and leaves me alone to mine.
It also seems to be generational. Gen X guys are too interested in being in charge which is tedious. I like guys who are mellow. I have noticed something though. Her definition is something along the lines of a social buff — hosting major parties…. Well guess what? You want a Generous guy for a stong woman butterfly, not an engineer. I acknowledge that fact.
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We could wait a long time… A very sexist message is given here to women: I was happy that a woman won the prestigious Fields Medal for mathematics but even happier to read in an interview that she is married, and not just to some houseman but to a guy who is a professor himself. Apparently he is not intimidated by her brain.
In modern relationships both people can develop different aspects of their personality: Both men and women want to accomplish this. To the men complaining that women are not loving and caring my message is: I never compete with men but I often notice that they start doing it the moment I tell them what I do for a living I am not bragging about it but I happen to have a high profile job so by simply mentioning it they already know that I am successful careerwise.
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About us ignoring nice men. Why would we do that? The problem is that most men who think they are nice men are not nice. They are often very frustrated because they see themselves as less successful as the more alpha males. So they expect a woman to build up their fragile ego which pushes a woman more in the role of a mother than the one of a partner. Nothing wrong with being nice but it has to be genuine and there has to be inner strenght Generous guy for a stong woman goes together with it.
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Sociological data shows women, of all stripes, not just traditional types, but feminist leaning house husband positive go getter females eventually become dissatisfied and leave their mates. Women want their cake and eat it too. There are only so many hours in the day, and the economics of the world continue to get harsher. The evidence strongly points to what men know instinctively, career driven females make for terrible mates on aggregate there are always exceptions.
Are women supposed to go on dates and pay for the bills? I think a man that loves you is willing to do just anything for u as long as you let him.
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Being a REAL leader means being able to get down in the trenches with everyone else to achieve goals. I know. Lol and what this says to me is that the above is typical female thinking nowadays; blaming men for everything while yourself accepting none of that blame.
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She has a lap dog. Sometimes I envy her because no one really controls her, yet I see she sometimes lacks real intimacy in her life. Who is to say which life is really better? Because now they could tax the other half of the population, and get the kids into the system and indoctrinated sooner.
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There are men who like to cook and women who have abundant knowledge. But none of you are encouraging these women. I think more women are ok with balanced men; men who have feminine and masculine traits. The ideal is Generous guy for a stong woman with both. Because the world today requires it and always has. Men can not be trusted to not abuse power, an no day is promised to any one.
So a woman had better have the sense to navigate this world alone as well as with a partner. But the partner should adjust. Men have not learned why their power has Generous guy for a stong woman usurped, so it continues. This used to bug me too, as if women are somehow better at being spoken down to or not having ambitions or always being in a support role for someones elses career.
I have pride too. I have desires too. I also want to make my mark on the world. My pride and self respect are knocked when treated like an acessory rather than fully paid up human with thoughts and feelings and desires.
It used to hurt when all I had to say when someone said what do you do? I want to achieve in my own right — we all do. From my own experience a reasonable number of professional women have a tough time letting their hair down and when with them seem to feel Ladies want sex tonight Lake hill NewYork 12448 if I were attending a 24 hour Martha Stewart festival.
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